Dialogue
based on marital life successful, it is the best way to create a
discussion quiet, through which the exchange of roles in the talk, and
listen each party to the other, but sometimes only pair silence and
chooses a way to evade the problems of marriage, Vtnzaaj wife of silence
and does not know how to deal with him in this case , note that this silence can be any cause for them in the occurrence of problems is difficult to get out of them .. On this issue, says Dr. Medhat Abdel-Hadi, a professor of marital relations:
Confront problemsWhen confronted the man problem or a complicated issue or passing through difficult circumstances, they often turn a man into silence, because he thinks quietly, Vijtla himself to solve this problem, and the man is that he is responsible for solving its problems by himself does not like that shared by one in this, how to behave wife in this case?? Wrong to the wife insists the pair to speak about what bothered, this increases the tension of lack of understanding of his wife, the psychological need for silence and self-reflection.Husband does not like to feel that the focus of constant care for the wife, it make him feel weak, so the actual wife if she saw him entered in the circle of silence can ask him to determine the appropriate time for dialogue between them when the ends of his thinking and be more comfortable, and express to him that it respects the feelings and care for his order, and give these space of time blameless or Matbh the.
Fatigue and the need for comfortSilent when the man is tired and needs a period of rest for recreation and energy recovery, unlike the women that reflect aloud what Atabha, and when you go out what's inside feel at home.The wife how to behave in this situation?The wife to receive her husband tired welcome and fondling, and is keen to be equipped with the same every day in a different way and a new good reception (Accessories - Perfumes - arranged her words emotional - surprised gift or what position), it accelerates out man for his silence, and quickly regain its activity and Abadelha feelings and dialogue.Busy thinking pair for long periods of time in labor issues and responsibilities, this preoccupation with intellectual paid for silence.
The wife how to behave in this situation?Wife can awaiting opportunities and appropriate times to talk with him and discuss the problems and concerns.The wife must learn Teaser and attractive method for the transfer of the pair of closed circuit thinking, and introduce the element of surprise in her speech, in addition to the element of humor and fun in the dialogue.
Other reasonsBut there are other reasons push the pair to silence them:- Listening to the wrong comments and mockery from his wife when he speaks at a time.- Interrupted frequently when you speak.- Make judgments prior to his speech before the completion of the speech.- Direct accusation, blame and ridicule while talking to him.- That the wife can feel they understand more of it in the topic which Ihorha.- Not interested when asked by an interview.So the wife has to change this method is faulty in the dialog to change if the husband with her, and replaced by words of praise and appreciation and praise, and can feel their need him, and to express his confidence.
Confront problemsWhen confronted the man problem or a complicated issue or passing through difficult circumstances, they often turn a man into silence, because he thinks quietly, Vijtla himself to solve this problem, and the man is that he is responsible for solving its problems by himself does not like that shared by one in this, how to behave wife in this case?? Wrong to the wife insists the pair to speak about what bothered, this increases the tension of lack of understanding of his wife, the psychological need for silence and self-reflection.Husband does not like to feel that the focus of constant care for the wife, it make him feel weak, so the actual wife if she saw him entered in the circle of silence can ask him to determine the appropriate time for dialogue between them when the ends of his thinking and be more comfortable, and express to him that it respects the feelings and care for his order, and give these space of time blameless or Matbh the.
Fatigue and the need for comfortSilent when the man is tired and needs a period of rest for recreation and energy recovery, unlike the women that reflect aloud what Atabha, and when you go out what's inside feel at home.The wife how to behave in this situation?The wife to receive her husband tired welcome and fondling, and is keen to be equipped with the same every day in a different way and a new good reception (Accessories - Perfumes - arranged her words emotional - surprised gift or what position), it accelerates out man for his silence, and quickly regain its activity and Abadelha feelings and dialogue.Busy thinking pair for long periods of time in labor issues and responsibilities, this preoccupation with intellectual paid for silence.
The wife how to behave in this situation?Wife can awaiting opportunities and appropriate times to talk with him and discuss the problems and concerns.The wife must learn Teaser and attractive method for the transfer of the pair of closed circuit thinking, and introduce the element of surprise in her speech, in addition to the element of humor and fun in the dialogue.
Other reasonsBut there are other reasons push the pair to silence them:- Listening to the wrong comments and mockery from his wife when he speaks at a time.- Interrupted frequently when you speak.- Make judgments prior to his speech before the completion of the speech.- Direct accusation, blame and ridicule while talking to him.- That the wife can feel they understand more of it in the topic which Ihorha.- Not interested when asked by an interview.So the wife has to change this method is faulty in the dialog to change if the husband with her, and replaced by words of praise and appreciation and praise, and can feel their need him, and to express his confidence.
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